You may remember Meghan and Eric of Washington Post Express fame — the couple who claimed to be having an elephant at their wedding? Well, they’re married now, and although their wedding was sans elephant, it was still an amazing time!
Meghan and Eric got married on a chilly fall day at the GORGEOUS Oatlands Historic House and Gardens in Leesburg. My cousin married one of my best friends a few years ago here, and I was so excited to go back! As you pull into the Oatlands in the fall, here is your view:

(I can only imagine what it looks like now, with the amazing colors we’ve been having this season)
When I arrived, the catering staff at RSVP Catering was getting everything ready inside the GORGEOUS tent, provided by Select Event Rentals. Select Event Rentals is the exclusive tent company for the Oatlands, and I can see why. From the walls that were very lovely, to the BEAUTIFUL chandeliers, seen here:

to the MUCH NEEDED heaters (Eric, aren’t you glad now I insisted on heaters?!), they did an amazing job!
We must now pause to discuss the flowers. OH, the FLOWERS! I have a confession here. Before I started doing weddings, I didn’t see what the big deal was about flowers. Why were they so expensive? (Okay, I still sort of think that, but I’m cheap…) Why so many? What’s the big deal, just go to Trader Joe’s and buy some, right? But oh, no. Over the past few months, I’ve seen some amazing flowers, and I’ve seen some…flowers. There IS a difference, people! And the difference can be seen in Meghan and Eric’s flowers, provided by the outstanding Country Way Flowers of Middleburg. I was SO in love with Meghan’s flowers, from the boutonnieres:

to the altar flowers:


to even the simple little decorations on the cocktail tables:

Everything was gorgeous. But my favorite, of course, were the bouquets. The bridesmaids bouquets were the perfect matching shade of red, with gorgeous red berries and lotus pods, which are my new favorite bouquet inclusion:

Meghan’s bouquet stole the show. It smelled AMAZING, thanks to what I think was freesia (someone correct me if I’m wrong) and was filled with gorgeous flowers in shades of white, along with lotus pods, and adorable green berries. I just can’t say enough how perfect this bouquet was, and how sweet the ladies of Country Way were. I hope to work with them again soon.

On to the ceremony! Meghan and Eric had their wonderful friend Jason officiate the ceremony. I’m not quite sure how Jason was ordained, but because he lives in Colorado and isn’t affiliated with a particular church, we were unable to get him authorized in Virginia. However, Virginia does allow residents of certain counties to become officiants on a one time only basis, so Meghan’s adorable father, who lives in Fairfax County, was able to certify the marriage on their marriage license. I actually think this is very sweet, to have your dad “officiate” your wedding. If you’re interested in doing something like this, definitely check your local County or City Clerk’s office for the rules. It’s different everywhere.
The Oatlands has a beautiful location for outdoor ceremonies, but it comes with a slight logistical challenge…a GIANT urn of flowers smack dab in the middle of the aisle! After much discussion at the rehearsal, this is how Meghan and her dad decided to tackle it:

Meghan and Eric also used one of my favorite new trends in weddings, which is multi-gender wedding parties. Meghan had her brother as her Man of Honor, and Eric’s sister was one of the groom’s women. (Okay, the only groomswoman, but still…) Rather than have his sister wear a bridesmaid’s dress, she wore a lovely black gown:

and Meghan’s brother wore the same tux as the groomsmen.

The music for the ceremony and cocktail hour held a special place in the hearts of Meghan and her family (and their wedding planner), all of whom grew up on Irish music. Celtic Marc was the Irish band hired for the music, and they were WONDERFUL! Not only was their music perfect, but these guys were just great to work with. I can’t recommend them strongly enough to anyone who is considering adding an Irish touch to your wedding!
At our final meeting before the wedding, Eric and Meghan realized they wanted a special “send off”, but many places have restrictions, whether it’s on sparklers, rice, birdseed, etc. They wanted something fun! I mentioned that I had seen ribbon wands on a wedding blog and Meghan fell in love with the idea. She and her mom MADE these gorgeous wands, with mom sewing bells onto the ribbon, and Meghan painstakingly gluing the ribbons to each wand (in spite of some serious hot glue gun injuries…weddings are pain, people!):

I wish I had a picture of them waving, but no such luck! Trust me, though, they were really great.
After dinner, the couple cut their DELICIOUS cake from Cake Lore (aka “Cakes by Loretta”). The cake looked EXACTLY like the pictures Meghan provided as inspiration — great job, Loretta!

Cutting the cake isn’t as easy as it might seem — often the couple will get to the table and realize they’re not sure what to do! Enter, your friendly wedding planner:

After much dancing and merriment, it was time to say goodbye, but Meghan and Eric, yet again, didn’t want to do something boring, so rather than your standard limo, they rented this GORGEOUS 1962 Bentley, courtsey of Regal Limousine:


If you’re looking for a “special” car on your wedding day, John Bays is the guy to call. The driver, Ken, was a complete professional, and allowed the MANY people who wanted to photograph the car (yours truly included) tons of photos, as well as looks inside the car, and answered the questions everyone had. Yet another vendor I can’t say enough nice things about!
The ribbon wavers were brought out again for the big send off, and the couple and their guests retired to Lansdowne Resort to meet back at the bar as the party continued!
Congratulations again, Meghan and Eric. You guys and your families were an absolute joy to work with, and I hope to see you again soon.
