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New Postage Rates & Wedding Stamps

Thursday, March 5th, 2009

Did you hear?  The Post Office is raising their prices again.  Effective May 11th, the price of a first-class stamp will go from $0.42 to $0.44.  Envelopes between 1-2oz. will go from $0.59 to $0.61.  Remember that you can buy ‘Forever’ stamps.  Just buy them before May 11th to get the $0.42 price.

They are also releasing a new wedding stamp!  Here are the designs:

I can’t say I love them but they’re not awful.  I like that the Post Office is using photographic images instead of clip-art-y drawings like they usually do for weddings.  Plus these were taken by a local DC photographer!

ATTENTION SPRING BRIDES! Are you sending your invitations before May 11th?  Are you stamping your RSVP envelopes like a good bride should?  Don’t forget that your little responses won’t make it back to you if they don’t have enough postage.  The post office will have no problem returning them to your confused guests.  Check your RSVP date and either use Forever stamps or the new $0.44 wedding stamp.

Click here for the USPS press release & more information.

Bridal Tea with Anna Post

Friday, February 20th, 2009

Ms. Post will talk with brides, members of the bridal party, and family members about how to handle difficult moments during wedding planning.  From invitation wording to thank-you note tips, Anna offers insights that will keep brides sane and their mothers nodding in approval.  And, whether it’s the future mother-in-law who insists on hosting a rehearsal dinner that’s more formal than the wedding reception, a maid of honor who won’t return the bride’s calls, or perhaps a bride with a wee bit of a control problem, Anna offers helpful advice about how to handle emotional interactions with those around you leading up to the big day.

Bazin’s on Church
111 Church Street NW
Vienna, VA

Sunday, March 22, 2009
3:00-5:00pm

For more information or to make your reservation, email Lindsay at the Dandelion Patch or visit one of their stores in person.  The $60 ticket includes an autographed book from Ms. Post!

A Wish Bride, Featured

Friday, January 23rd, 2009

Our congratulations goes to Rae Robinson Trotman, a recent Wish Bride!  Rae and Braeden tied the knot and celebrated at 2941 Restaurant in Falls Church, VA this past September.  Cristin was their wedding day coordinator and handled the torrential downpours that day like a pro.  We were thrilled to see Rae’s spot-on advice featured in the new Washingtonian Bride & Groom magazine.  Her advice?

“When choosing a wedding planner, hire an experienced, tested professional.  Anyone who’s too new to the game can make things difficult.”

We couldn’t agree with you more, Rae!  Congratulations on the wedding and on this beautiful feature.

WishLove: Esther and Michael

Thursday, January 15th, 2009

Here’s the sweetest note I received from Esther and Michael after their wedding:

“Dear Rebecca,

Michael and I sincerely thank you for all the time, effort, smiles, your great informational emails, determination and more that you put into our special day.  You made the whole planning process more fun…boy, do we wish we had found you earlier!  Like I’ve said before, all our friends, family, and even the vendors themselves commented they felt they were in good hands having you guide us through the day and complimented on how smooth the day’s events occurred.  I also received a lot of comments on how relaxed I looked throughout our wedding day and I really attribute it to knowing you were managing all the details, the guests, the decor, etc.  I didn’t have to worry about a thing!  From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for coming into our lives.  We feel blessed to have had you as our wedding coordinator and to also have made a good friend along the way.

Warmest Regards,

Esther & Michael”

How to Become a Wedding Planner

Monday, November 10th, 2008

I’ve recently been publishing articles on eHow.com.  This great website has how-to instructions for just about anything you can imagine.  Since I know how I started my own company, I thought I’d share the steps I took to create WishClick here to read How to Become a Wedding Planner.
I’ll have another post later on today.  Just have to pull some photos from my camera!

Blog Action Day

Wednesday, October 15th, 2008

Heard about Blog Action Day, yet?  We’ve been waiting for this day since August.  This amazing movement is comprised of bloggers all over the world who raise awareness of a problematic topic on the same day.  Last year’s theme was the environment and this year it’s poverty.  How do we connect weddings and poverty, you ask?


Many brides and grooms choose to donate to a charity or cause in lieu of wedding favors.  Sometimes this is an organization that’s meaningful to the couple, such as the ASPCA they adopted their dog from or their alma mater.  Sometimes this is an organization that the couple supports, like the Susan G. Komen Foundation or even Goodwill.

What organizations do they never contribute to?  Those they’ve never heard of.

I want to take this opportunity and raise awareness about three organizations that can use your help.  A wedding is the perfect time to think of those less fortunate.  Why not skip the jordan almonds and make a difference?

First we have ONE, perhaps the most popular of the three.  This is the organization that Brad Pitt, Matt Damon, Susan Sarandon, Sean Combs, Cameron Diaz, Justin Timberlake, Bono, Tom Hanks, George Clooney, and many more support.  ONE is primarily a lobbying organization, dedicated to raising awareness and educating political officials about poverty in the US and other nations.  While they don’t yet have a gift registry set up, you could certainly make a donation in lieu of favors.  Here is one of their creative TV ads:

Next we have African Dowry.  This London-based organization is the wedding registry arm of Farm Africa, a charity that provides farming help to families in Africa.  As a bride, you can create a wedding registry, send your wedding guests to the website, and they make a donation on your behalf.  What a great idea!

Here is one story about the difference they’re making:

FARM-Africa is working with thirteen primary schools in Babati, Tanzania, through our Agricultural and Environmental Education Project. We help teachers to devise new lesson plans and deliver them in a way that inspires and motivates pupils.

Rebekah is sixteen years old and has attended her primary school since she was ten. Before then, her parents couldn’t afford to send her. Rebekah is enthusiastic about the new skills she’s learning:

“We’ve set up demonstration plots at school so we can learn how to plant maize. The maize has grown very well and we use it in the school, so we all get a meal to eat. The teachers also sell some to raise money for books and chairs. I want to be a farmer when I leave school, like my parents, but I also want to teach others how to farm well too.”

Rebekah has made a good start at teaching others. She’s taught her parents about the benefits of chicken and cattle manure and their maize is growing much better. FARM-Africa encourages children to share what they learn with their families and neighbours.

Farming in the future will still be challenging for these youngsters. But thanks to FARM-Africa’s work, children like Rebekah will leave school with the knowledge, skills and enthusiasm they need to help feed themselves and their families.

They also donate livestock, provide micro loans, and offer the use of farming equipment to prepare farmland and help with new crops.  Read more of their amazing stories here.

Finally we have my personal favorite.  Changing the Present is a similar organization built around helping people through gift registries.  Like African Dowry, you register on their website for certain items.  Instead of just focusing around Africa and farming, your guests can purchase things like fishing lessons for a woman, breakfast for a child for one year, or seeds for a village.  There are also categories other than hunger like human rights, peace, water, medical research, education, animal welfare, disaster relief, and many many more.  Just imagine the difference that money can make instead of buying you a new gravy boat or fondue pot.

I hope you’ve at least considered using one of these organizations as part of your wedding plans.  By taking a few minutes to learn about the options, you can make a big difference and play a role in ending the world’s poverty.

New Marriage Laws in DC

Tuesday, October 7th, 2008

Good news for those of you marrying in DC! After a bit of a mix up last month, the District of Columbia has finally changed the city’s code requiring couples to obtain a blood test in order to receive a marriage license.  This means that the city’s antiquated law requiring couples to obtain a syphilis test (which studies showed was ineffective in reducing the incidence of syphilis in the city) has been taken out of the city code.  So not only will your marriage license now be easier to get, it will also be cheaper.  Many clinics were charging over $100 for these tests.

Also taken off the books?  A law over 100 years old that banned the marriage of “lunatics” and “idiots.”  So, you know…that’s good news too :)

Still have questions?  Call the Marriage Bureau Section of the DC Government at 202-879-4840 or visit http://www.dccourts.gov/dccourts/superior/family/marriage.jsp

Wedding Photos at DC’s Monuments

Thursday, September 18th, 2008

Did you know that the National Park Service requires a permit for all commercial photographs of the national monuments? 

A bride trying to plan her November wedding and day-after photo shoot asked me this, so I bet there are others out there looking for the answer. For couples married in DC, photographs of the bridal party at the monuments are almost a requirement. If this is on your “Must Do” list, make sure that you and your photographer are prepared.

Q: So, which monuments does this apply to?
A: All monuments and memorials run by the National Park Service. Including:

Jefferson Memorial
{ Save the Date NYC }

Washington Monument
{ Borrowed Blue }

Lincoln Memorial
{ Ryeli }

And others less photographed memorials:
World War II Memorial
FDR Memorial
Korean War Memorial
Vietnam Memorial

There are two ways to solve this problem. The first is to get a permit. More information about the restrictions on taking photoraphs on Natioanl Park Service land are available here and the permit application is available here. Permits cost between $50 and $250 (depending on the number of people in the pictures) and are good for the entire day.

Your second option: visit one of DC’s free locations. It is only the National Park Service which charges for photo privileges, so take the {bridal} party somewhere else! You will have beautiful photographs without the hassle at these locations:

Union Station  

{ Spence Photographics }

The White House

{ NPR }
you won’t get as close as Ms. Nixon, but it would be a beautiful shot

The Capitol Building

{ Ryeli }

And these other great options:
Lafayette Park (behind the White House)
Sculpture Garden
Capitol Hill (quiet little streets, parks)
Georgetown (the Beacon Hill of DC)
Tidal Basin Cherry Blossoms (just watch the monuments:)

If you were married in DC, where did you go for pictures?

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